1. Ask the important questions - at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Setting parameters such as naming your relationship ( dating, seeing each other, boyfriend/girlfriend, engaged)as well defining exclusive(limited to one person,) non exclusive. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Example: "Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?"or "What are you looking to get out of the relationship?". Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maitain what they need.

2. Communicate in some way every day - more than once if possible. Since you won't be seeing each other, it's important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These don't have to be long, in-depth conversations (though those should occur sometimes). Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies. Ask for advice. Use an instant messenger program or VoIP for real-time chat, or web cams for that visual connection, but while instant messaging and e-mails play a large role in long distance relationships, remember that they can in no way replace verbal communication. E-mail is great so make sure you use it, especially if long-distance phone calls put a strain on your budget.(Even though phone calls might get a little too expensive, there are special cards if you are to call each other from different countries, there will be no problems with costs since it is very cheap. We highly recommend you get one of those cards, it will be a lot cheaper and from experience E-mail and instant messages makes it easier to misunderstand each other.) Write [[Love|love]] letters. Send small gifts or flowers for no reason. In this case, quantity is as important as quality. You may discover an advantage over others whose partner is close at hand - you don't take communication for granted!

3. Do things together. Defy the distance - Frequent communication is a great thing when it can be managed in a long distance relationship. However, constant communication over the phone alone may tend to drag people down in the long run. It's important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. Just think... people in short-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this by finding things to do together such as watching a TV show or movie simultaneously. For an extensive list of more things you can do with each other (or for each other) click here: [http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/thingsforldrcouplestodo.htm]

4. Take advantage of the benefits - a long distance relationship offers: more time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence, time to mull your options (rather than snapping at your partner impulsively) before you respond to that email s/he wrote that seemed so rude the first time you read it, etc. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality - something that can get lost in the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together.

5. Pursue common interests - even if it means pursuing them apart. If there's a movie you're both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterward and talk about it. Read a certain book at the same time. Stargaze while on you're on the phone. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, and synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it a point to think of each other when your watch goes off, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too. Find creative ways to bond.

6. Avoid the temptation to be controlling - People have free will and no one can or should control another person. As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference. As soon as one of you decides the other is not a good match - or someone else is a better match - your relationship ends, whether you live 3000 miles apart, two streets over, or share the same bed with your wedding picture on the wall. You are going to have to trust each other completely if this relationship is going to work.

7. Talk about your future together - Assuming that ultimately you'd want to live together, discussing how you're going to get to that point will help you prove to each other that the relationship is going somewhere and that your efforts and frustrations are not in vain.

8. Know when to say good-bye - While this is tough in any relationship, this can be especially hard over long distances. When communication becomes one-sided or sparse for too long and for no apparent reason, when arguments (yes, you'll have them) become too frequent, when the whole thing just seems like more trouble than it's worth, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. Either you'll decide to go your separate ways, or you'll get closer for having overcome another obstacle to your happiness together.

9. Remember things will get better - with time, and even the relationship will become better. Have hope.

10. Pray for each other - with GOD, nothing is impossible.

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Ang mga labing kay pait na walang hanggan
Sa hangin ng puso dumadaan
Mainit mo ako ngayong hinahawakan
Mga kamay mo'y naglalakbay kung saan-saan
Mainit mong akong binabalot ng iyong kalungkutan
Natutunaw ako sa init ng iyong katawan
Ako ba'y tunay mong nararamdaman (2x)
Kailan mo ba akong mararamdaman
O kaytagal maghilom ng mga sugat ko
Abutin ko man malalim ito
Malulunod ako
Ako ba'y tunay mong nararamdaman (2x)
Kailan mo ba ako mararamdaman

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I started being really proud of the fact that i was madly inlove to myy..
The only achievements I am really proud of is to have you myy..
The small things u've done to me,makes that I am at the top..
That no one can't see me,, but only you..

There are images I need to complete my own reality..
In my dreams, I found it on you..
If I could say it in words, there would be reason to paint, and to dream forever..

MyY I am proud of you is not just because you're always there for me..
Its just because even that I don't expect from you somethi'n.. You're always suprised me in some ways..
No promises,, but no limitations..

(cry) I am Proud of you myY in many reasons..
In the spiritual things you've shared with me makes me I am whole,,
The perfect person that I really wanted to be with,, second to God, and be my partner in my entire life, as God catch up my last breath.
ILOVEYOU MYY.. You're my One And Only Myy...

I may not get to see you as often as I like
I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night,
But deep in my heart I truly know, you're the One that I love,,
And I can't let you go....

There was distance between us, but I tried to make time..
but it was never enough...
I am sorry,, but i just can't turn off how I feel for you..
You were the One who stole my heart.. I don't care about the distance..
I just love you.

We felt like it was all just a dream,, just a dream..but a dream forever
Iloveyou myy...

 
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 The beauty of love lasts a life time,
but what happens when the relationship is long distance?
It's still the same only hundreds (if not thousands) of miles away.
When you're in love it doesn't matter if your loved one is in the same city, state or even country.
Love has no distance ~Jacquee


Assumptions are the termites of relationships. ~Henry Winkler

The best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. ~Saging


Don't measure the distance; measure my love. ~lifesip.com


Love is the shortest distance between hearts. ~lifesip.com


The purpose of relationship
is not to have another who might complete you,
but to have another with whom
you might share your completeness. ~sapphyr

 
I've never seen you
Or touched your skin
I've never felt your lips
Or held you tight
But I know I love you

Not because of the way you look
Or because of that sexy voice
Not because of the things you say
But because of whom you are

When we meet I will kiss you
And hold you all night

I love everything about you
Because it's you

Is it possible
That someone like you
Could complete me?

You're the only one I want
The only one I think about
The only one I truly love

You've treated me wrong sometimes
As I've done the same
But everyone makes mistakes
And your not one of mine

Be with me for the rest of time
I'll give you my heart
And you give me your mind

  YEAR2007..

LCW chatters aku nun and myy is Airg chatter,,
well nakilala ko xa nung nyt nun na araw na ngmumukmok aku,ahehe
first got my attention nung pumasok xa as a usernik of saging..
e xempre katawa db,, sa dami ng pde gamitin e saging p npili ng
pinakamamahal kong c myy..ate! uyaa! yn ang tawagan nmn ni myy nun.. alala ko lng,, ahihih.. un nga ngpatawa xa sarap kausap,
den ask nea agad mga fs account ng mga nsa rum .. uhmm stlye ng myy ko..
un nga aku nmn nipm ko xa sknya,, then un n nga,, kita ko fs nea,,
haha ,, prang wala lng,, un lng,,
,
1week n mgkakilala kmi is nakita ko fs ko na my ngcomment galing s knya.. uhmm
gulat ako,, xe my pix pa ku nun sa comment nea,, uhmm,,
so msg aq s knya nun sa fs,, sv ko uhmm kaw ha,, without permission,,uhmm prang gnun haha
nde ku na kompletuhin ha,, yuku msama ung ungas dito e,, so un nga..
kita ko n nmn xa nun sa lcw.. e nung time n un ala aq kilala..
so kita ko sa online list andun xa,, sa hackzone rum ata un haha,, bt bgla akong napaisip
uhmm sila lng dalawa ni jm nun,, hacker un,, ung kasama nea nun sa rum,..
haha
napaisip tuloy ako na isang Bakla si saging, peo ngpm p rn aku nun,,
e nde xa reply,, nainis ako, sbi ko ,, e d wag! tz lipat rum aq nun,, .. tz un gulat ako sumunod,,
uhmmm.. aun chika chika,, dadada,, ahihih,

2nd week,, kita ko xa online sa ym! peo nde ku xa nipm nun,, xe nde ku p xa close nun e,,
xe xempre pakirmadam muna ko nun, bgla n lng myngpop up msg sa ym mail ku, nkita ko..
nireplyan nya pla ung msg ku s knya sa fs,,
so un,, ngvisible aku nun,,sa ym
then pm xa nun,, jacquee! tz un na nagkulitan na,, e ala ako nun kausap nung tym n un, xa nsa confference,,nun
sbi ko uy sali ako,, haha,, tz panay pa dc ko, xe sagap lng connection ko nun haha.. gang ngayon pla sagap lng,,

3rd week un na,, usap usap wentuhan at lagi n xa online nun tuwing madaling araw sa pinas! uhmmm,, (nanliligaw n kea un) haha
sabhan ng mga prob,, etc.. etc.. haha

4th week uhmm eto na,, prang namimiz ko n xa haha,, inlove atah aku kxe i felt selos na e,, pg napupunta kmi sa chatsyt ahehe gusto ko ako lng usap nea! damot ko,,
den i started calling na tlga
ubos load ku nun, pinas e tz israel aku,
tz prang mutual n ung nafefeel nmn sa isat isa,, ahehe,, tama b myy!!
sbi ko s knya i have account in moco,, then un na haha,, nde ku na pinakawalan ang saging
sinagot na nea ako! haha and that was july 27, 2007 yipeeeee!!! haha

umabot ba ng 1 month ligawan?? haha prang ,,,, so un n nga kmi p rn nmn gang naun
actually,, its our 13 monthsary na,, -ura- prang kelan lng,,whewww..
peo ung sa 13 months n un,, KATAKOTTTTT TAKOT MUNA NA AWAY ANG NAGANAP,
xempre gnun nmn tlga db,, umamin kau,, peo nalagpasan nmn un,,kxe nga mhal na mahal ko c myy,, Xa lang at wala ng iba! bow!
he made me complete! promiz! ahehe at dami ako natutunan ke myy,, lumaban,lumakas ang loob,, at marami pang iba! hahaha
we started as friends,, haha ganda ng linya! but we feel perfectlly match as lovers,, ahehe,,sana,, till end,,uhmmm
shortcut na ytong wento ko e,, dami kxe nangyari tlga,, haha,, kea niiksian ko n lng,,

so un nga,, i hope nde p matatapos ang wento ko nito,, gang pgtanda nmn hahha,, sana-pray- iloveyou myy!!!!!
Hope ko n sna mas tumagal pa relationship nten as friends, bestfriend boyfirend! haha sinakop ko n lhat ha,, bsta! un lng bow!